You’re life as a sugar baby is riding high. You have a great boyfriend, an amazing sugar daddy, your life & network is growing at a rate you could only dream about. Not only is your network growing, your financially supported by your SD in ways that are incredible. Emotionally, you’re boyfriend is giving you the support you need. So, what’s the issue?
Ah, that little voice inside your head that is telling you something is not right. If you’re one that believes in karma, you truly know your setup is a bit evil. You are now at the point that you need to come clean. No more hiding, no more lying, you simply can’t deal with this inner guilt any longer. Your boyfriend is actually a great guy, probably one that adores you like no other. Yet, the guilt is killing you, the truth needs to come out.
How To Tell Your Boyfriend About Your Sugar Daddy
Telling your boyfriend about your sugar daddy comes down to two main options. Which one is for you, depends on your ultimate end game. This is truly a tough situation. If you get rid of your sugar daddy, you’re going to resent your boyfriend – even though it’s not his fault, but he will feel the brunt of your inner bitchiness. You get rid of your boyfriend, then your true inner core will feel off. Face it, both men provide you exactly what you need to feel centered and fulfilled. So the question remains, what do you do? In order to answer this question as a sugar baby, you need to dig deep. At the end of the day, can you truly answer if this boyfriend is one you can see spending the rest of your life with? Don’t ask your girlfriends, sugar sisters, or family. Take a deep look at yourself and get that answer.
If that answer is yet, then you have two options.
- Option 1 – Be completely honest with your boyfriend. Explain why you have this sugar daddy. Chances are he’s going to be quite upset. What you do and say next will determine which way this relationship grows. If you come forward with wanting to no longer be with your SD, but need him (your boyfriend) to up his ambition, you will be willing to not only leave this SD but leave the sugar bowl entirely. For many of you, this is an extreme response. But remember, if you see a real future with him, you need to do.
- Option 2 – Tell your boyfriend what you with your sugar daddy, and that you’re not looking to change that. Depending on your boyfriend, he’ll be angry and try to convince you otherwise. Some sets of guys will want nothing to do with you, and will simply walk away. Don’t take it personal as it’s his life & relationship too. You have to be ok with this outcome as it’s very possible. My personal favorite buy you time by playing the middle ground. Tell him you need to stay with your sugar daddy X amount of time as it will allow you to do Y. Example, I need to stay with my sugar daddy 3 more months as all my student loans will be gone. Cry a little, tell him that you hate your doing this but have no other way. His response might be him still wanting to leave you, but there’s a much better chance he understands and you get through it. Just realize he will 95% be with some sort of casual hookup to even the playing field.